10 Important Questions You Should Ask On Your First Date And 5 You Should Avoid For Later
The first date is always going to give you butterflies. This is the first time you and the person you would like to have a romantic relationship will be sitting down and talking about yourself and getting to know the other person. This is a really important time for the two of you ask each other a few questions.
Now asking questions on the first date can be a grey area depending on what you ask. If you ask too many or too personal questions things can get sour. If you stay light and ask normal questions about like and interests, things can go smoothly and you’ll have great conversation material.
Asking them what music they like to listen to is a great way of starting a conversation. Not only will this let you know if the two of you like the same music style, band or artist it will also open doors to questions about other things they like. If they share common musical interests as you do then you can plan on going to a music festival or concert together.
Asking what their favorite movie makes a great conversation starter and a great chance to know the kind of person you’re dating. Are they into serious movies, comedies, sci-fi, will tell you a lot about the person you’re dating. Plus if things work out then you can plan movie dates based of the answers to this question.
3About their families
You can ask them questions about their families and expect to be asked the same. Everyone wants to know if you’re close to your family, how many members are there, what do they do, and do you get along well. Just know that you should not cross the line when asking these questions and to back away when you feel them getting uncomfortable.
4Ask about pets
Pets make a great conversation starter. The question “Do you like pets?” can branch off to a number of other conversations that can keep going for a long time if you cannot think of anything else. You can ask if they have pets, want pets, which do they like the most, which don’t they like.
This is a good question to ask as it opens doors to other important questions like what foods they or you do not like so that you or they won’t order it. It also opens up doors to questions like what foods are they allergic to which can be really important to know.