Always Avoid these 7 Actions When Fighting with a Loved One
3Don’t mix it all up.
When a fight ensues between partners, more often than not, past issues or issues unrelated to the present argument may be brought up which though irrelevant have the potential to escalate the dispute further. If in case the fight is about household chores or who should do the dishes, then keep it about that.
Never bring up past issues
You should never remind your partner about past issues, or failures and weaknesses as that can hurt someone in an intense and emotional way. Do not take digs about something that may have been their fault in the past because that is over and done with. Such things can make a simple domestic issue into an ugly confrontation with unfortunate repercussions. This may also make your partner think logically if they need to stay in such a relationship where grudges or past issues are a constant thorn and where there are too many demands.
4Never ever talk about a divorce or separation.
Before the word even comes into your mind, take a few seconds to think, is it worth it. Is the fight you are having now going to be a permanent seed of discord between the both of you and which will remain unsettled? If so then perhaps separation can be contemplated but in most cases, fights can be over silly issues and regardless of how angry you both may be, it is simply not worth speaking of separation because after a an hour, a day or even some minutes you both may be making up and acting like lovebirds.
The word divorce can be insulting
When the word divorce is uttered in a fight, it is actually a huge insult insinuating to the other that they are simply not worth living with. This could hurt the other person deeply and if you keep saying such things in fights, you can expect your divorce to really happen and faster too. If there is love, there is no need of separation.